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For when you're considering someone specific for marriage. You each take the same private compatibility assessment separately — covering the six areas that shape a marriage — in about 20 minutes.

$8. One payment, covers both of you. No subscriptions.

Walima is for two people already considering each other — not a place to meet new people.

This is for you if

  • You’re considering someone specific for marriage
  • You’ve been introduced through family, a wali, or friends

Not the right fit if

Four steps to clarity

Two parts, meaningful insights. Honest questions, clear compatibility data, and a wali included in the process.

1

You Complete Part One

Answer 35 questions about your values, expectations, and priorities across six dimensions of marriage. Add a wali, family member, imam, or counselor to receive the results.

2

Invite the Other Party

Send an invite to the person you're considering. They complete the same foundation assessment independently, so both perspectives are captured honestly.

3

The Deep Dive

Based on where your answers actually diverge, a second assessment is generated specifically for the two of you — scenario-based questions that go deeper than any generic quiz can.

4

Your Insights

Everyone you included receives the same detailed compatibility report by email, with actionable talking points and conversation starters.

Here's what your insights look like

This is a sample showing one of six categories. Yours will reflect your specific answers and dynamics across all of them.

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Compatibility Insights

Ahmed & Fatima

Strong Alignment

Strengths

  • Both prioritize daily prayer and seek a household rooted in Islamic practice
  • Strong alignment on communication style and conflict resolution approach

Key Discussions

  • Differing expectations around financial provision and shared expenses
  • In-law boundaries and the role of extended family in household decisions
FinancesSignificant

Financial Provision Expectations

Islam establishes financial provision (nafaqah) as a husband's obligation, and Ahmed embraces this fully. Fatima, while appreciating this, envisions a more collaborative approach where both contribute to household expenses based on ability. This is a common and healthy discussion point. The key is not whether the husband provides, but how both parties define sufficiency, shared goals, and discretionary spending within an Islamic framework.

How to navigate

Discuss specific financial scenarios before moving forward: What does the first year look like? How are major purchases decided? If Fatima earns income, is it treated as her own (as Islam permits) or pooled into household expenses? Clarity here prevents resentment later and honors both the obligation of nafaqah and the principle of mutual consultation (shura).

Conversation Starters

  • If one of you had to take time off work for family, how would you adjust financially?
  • What does "providing" look like in practice for your household? Is it rent and bills, or does it extend to savings and lifestyle?
  • How would you approach a major financial decision where you disagree?

Six dimensions of compatibility

Questions informed by Islamic values and real-world premarital counseling.

Islamic Values

Prayer, spirituality, and how faith shapes daily life

Family & Home

Living arrangements, in-laws, children, and household roles

Finances

Earning, spending, saving, and financial expectations

Communication

Conflict resolution, emotional needs, and disagreements

Lifestyle

Career, social life, and daily routines

Life Goals

Long-term vision, growth, and what success looks like

We can't see your answers.
Even if we wanted to.

We built it this way on purpose.

Your answers are encrypted the moment they reach us, automatically deleted after you view your report, and gone for good in 72 hours.

Your Answers Are Encrypted

Your responses are encrypted on our servers the moment they arrive. We store only encrypted data that we cannot read. By design, not by policy.

Nothing Is Kept

Once both of you have viewed your report, all assessment data is permanently deleted. No backups. No archives.

No Apps, No Accounts Required

Complete everything in your browser. Just an email address to deliver your report.

Your Report Expires in 72 Hours

The link stops working after three days. Download the PDF if you want to keep it.

The right questions
make all the difference.

Religious practice. In-laws. Raising children. Surface the hard topics now, with questions shaped by Islamic values.

$8

One-time payment per assessment

  • Questions across the six dimensions that shape a marriage
  • Insights grounded in Islamic values and real compatibility
  • Specific talking points for the conversations that matter most
  • Download everything as a PDF. Yours to bring to a wali, imam, or counselor.
  • You're able to add a wali, family member, imam, or marriage counselor.
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Before you start

For any Muslim seriously considering someone for marriage who wants a private, structured way to explore compatibility before making a decision. Whether discussions are just beginning or engagement is near, the assessment surfaces the topics that matter most.

The Foundation covers your priorities, values, and expectations across six dimensions, with questions that account for the different roles and responsibilities Islam assigns to men and women in marriage. The Deep Dive is then generated specifically for your pair based on where your priorities diverge. All insights are informed by Islamic values and principles.

The Islamic values and principles referenced in Walima are drawn from the Quran and authentic Sunnah. Walima is a tool to help couples surface and discuss these topics together, not a source of religious rulings or guidance. For specific questions, we always encourage consulting a qualified scholar, imam, or your wali.

Islam defines different rights and responsibilities for husbands and wives. Your gender ensures the questions reflect that accurately. Your name is used only for the invitation email so the other party knows who invited them.

Yes. During setup you can add a wali, family member, imam, or marriage counselor. Everyone you include receives the same full insights report by email. This keeps the process transparent and family-involved from the start.

Full transparency is a core part of the process. Your insights show both sets of answers side by side so nothing is hidden. Both parties and anyone you chose to include all see the same report.

Walima does not replace talking. It replaces months of unstructured texting to figure out if you even agree on the basics. The compatibility assessment covers the pillars of a successful Islamic marriage in about 20 minutes. If you are aligned, you go into calls and halal meetups with confidence instead of guesswork. If you are not, you find out before either side is emotionally invested. Fundamentals first, vibes second.

The first part tells us what matters to each of you. The second is built specifically for your pair. It presents real-life scenarios about the areas where you are most likely to see things differently. Generic questions get generic answers. Personalized questions reveal real compatibility.

One payment of $8 covers both parties. No subscriptions, no upsells. If the other party does not complete their part within 30 days, the session expires, your data is deleted, and you receive a full refund.

Yes. Your answers and insights are encrypted and automatically deleted 72 hours after your report is generated. We never share, sell, or use your data for advertising. The only people who see your insights are the people you chose to include.

No, and it is not trying to be. Think of it as step one: a structured way to surface the important topics before or alongside professional counseling. We always recommend discussing the results with a wali, imam, or trusted advisor.

The Foundation takes about 5-7 minutes. The Deep Dive takes 10-15 minutes. Each part is completed in one sitting. You will receive email links when The Deep Dive and your insights are ready.

Built because this decision deserves a better starting point.